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November 21st, 2009

Labor Pains (2009) IMDB rating: 4.80 Plot: A young woman to pretends to be pregnant in order to avoid being fired from her job. When that gets her a bunch of special treatment by everyone involved in her life, she tries to keep up the lie for nine months.

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Actors: Parnell Chris,Kirby Luke,Covais Kevin,Matthews Jamisin,Allen Donald V.,Axelrod Jack,Bratton Creed,DiBarsanti Aurelius,Douglas D.C.,Garson Willie,Kent Gavin,Papick Barry,Raina Sunny,Comedy,

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Should I be feeling this pain…? It hurts A lot?
Hey. Most of you probably know me.
I had been ttc with husband for 4 1/2 yrs now and in June afer trying for so long finally got my BFP. But it was short lived happiness because I miscarried at 9 weeks. My sis in law got pregnant 2 months before me and now she is in labor.
Believe me when I say i couldn’t be happier for her. Both me and my husband are jumping out of excitement…but at the same time its making me sad because I knew that in 2 more months that was going to be me in labor.
I am not sad because I want to know why it happened to me, after trying for 4 1/2 yrs and my sis in law got pregnant only after 3 months she got married, I have accepted it and am happy with God’s decision.
I am ACTUALLY very sad about what could have been for me. How would it have felt if i was still pregnant, feeling the baby move around and waddling and wearing maternity clothes and all.
Last night i cried my heart out to my husband who has been the sweetest about everything. I guess i also needed to physical contact to feel better and less sad, so I asked him to make love to me. I tried so hard not to cry during love making, but I couldn’t help it, and ended up bawling like a baby. And he just held me and let me cry the whole time. Thats never happened to me before.
Maybe its the reality that hit me really hard like brick wall last night, that I really am not pregnant anymore.
Sorry for going on and on and on. But I just had to let all this out.
Please tell me how should I be feeling, is this wrong or childish of me?

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There is no right or wrong way to feel, there is only the way YOU feel. It is perfectly normal to be very sad when you have a miscarriage or keep trying to get pregnant and don’t Many a month for over four years I sat and cried and cried because I was not pregnant. We had tests done and everything, but there was nothing wrong…it was just a matter of time. We ended up getting pregnant after almost five years of trying and had a very healthy baby boy…that was ten years ago. I’ve known several people who try for years, get pregnant and shortly thereafter miscarry…repeatedly and they go through a lot of emotions, but eventually every one of them went onto have one, two or even three healty babies. There is plenty of time and a lot of hope for you. Try not to stress and if you haven’t already done so, go to a specialist and have you and your husband tested. I’m glad to hear you are being happy and excited for your sister in law even though you are personally having a hard time. Be sure to keep that way because it isn’t right to take from someone elses joy because of your own sorrow. Your turn will come…I know it will!

alicialions | Nov 19, 2009

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It is normal for you to be feeling this way. Miscarring is a very hard thing for some women to accept. Pray that God give you strength & peace to overcome the outcome. I am 26 & my parents TTC for 15yrs. before she ever concieved, a friedn of mine and her hubby have been TTc for 2 yrs. now so don’t think you are the only one not able to concieve. I think that when you try TO HARD or it’s on your mind 24/7 that your body stress’ and that is one thing that can cause problems in TTC. Try to relax and let things happen. Good Luck!
SheliaRuss | Nov 19, 2009

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If you got pregnant in June & were still pregnant, you would not be going into labor in 2 months. Your sister in law isn’t due until January if she got pregnant in April, she’s going to have a premature baby if they don’t stop her labor (I know, I got pregnant in april–was due in January–but had my baby in November at 32 weeks). It’s not something to be excited about when you’re in pre-term labor.

Anyways, yes it’s normal for you to feel upset. What’s meant to be will always find a way. Have you seen a doctor yet to see why you are having trouble conceiving? Have you considered other options? Make your dream come true and do what you have to do.
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