Should I keep him or Let Him Go?
Long Story so bear with me!
I had been dating this guy for 4 years it was a long distance relationship but we made it work, always going to see each other, it was good. towards the end we really started to see more of each other, but i could tell something wasn’t right, the last couple of months he started calling me private, although i still had numbers to reach him at like his mom his dad or sister…cousins lol. okay so i had made a trip down to see him for valentines day we spent valentines day together he gave me like all these gifts really sweet, it was the 16th and we had met up that night and were hanging out spending time together and suddenly he’s like he has to go so he left that night. he called but never came back through we argued, so the next morning i had back to my city as soon as i get home before i even get to unpack i get a call from this chick asking me who i am, and i tell her im his girlfriend, who are you? she says to me that she’s his baby mama that she’s having his baby, so im like wow! so that day the shit really hit the fan! actually before she called he called and was like don’t answer the phone don’t talk to her don’t listen her all this crap! so yeah so every-things out now and he’s still calling, very apologetic and really concerned with me and my health, she too was calling, telling me how i should let him alone and let them have there family. months go by me and him are still talking we were still together, i cant tell u how many arguments me and that girl get into, that me and him get into, its been crazy, the baby was born like in april i think, me and him were still talking i mean every single day. my birthday came around i was down there with him for my birthday weekend in july, by this time we are not together but still talk everyday, its gotten to the point where i receive private calls all day long, the person doesn’t say a word, but i know its her, she stalks on myspace, his myspace, her email, his email her friends email her Friends myspace. just stalking me. my ex claims he’s tried to handle her and the situation but there’s not too much he can do cause he cant control her and what she does or the things she says. its just gotten to the point where i’ve let it go, it hurts but i let it go, love has nothing to do with this, its just knowing the difference between right and wrong, and making the situation right! he’s told me that he’s not with her that she was just a fling to begin with and that he just cant get rid of her, and that she wants to be with him so she’s not going to leave me alone or let this go. i don’t know what to believe. i’m drained.basically now i only talk to him when he calls, and its not really about nothing but how my work and school is going i mean he still tells me he loves me but nothing deep, she still calls and ive spoke with her recently, and told her that me and him aren’t together so she can stop calling me, and that im not the one keeping her from her relationship with him, that it is him, if he wanted to be with you, he would1 , im not seeing him were not having sex anymore, its nothing seriously he just calls ans i have told him that he can stop calling he don’t have to worry about me but he continues to do it anyway. he has told me that we will get back together that were just on vacation taking a break, that he just needs to get his shit together make things right, but i didn’t tell her that, im like if its a family y’all trying to have then do that, i don’t understand why u worried about me a girl in a whole another state when you are right there with him. im like just let it go i have! i really want to let this go its draining, im stressed all the time, cause yall know apart of me still loves him very much but its so much pain involved that i cant do it anymore, its been a whole year since i found out he cheated and the baby, can u guys imagine hurting that long…..what should i do guys? its so much more to the story but that’s the need to know parts lol
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Nat | Nov 08, 2009
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